Jet Li's "Fearless" stirred me to rediscover my Chinese-ness, something that had long been an afterthought in a life of British sitcoms and Captain America.

Are you Chinese? Have you actually been “Chinese”? A Chinese with Western upbringing answers a rhetorical question about not being Chinese in a Chinese fashion.

I blamed the social exclusion I faced mostly on my ethnicity. When people referred to me as Chinese-American, I would tell them to cut off the "Chinese-" part.

A Chinese couple walks into the restaurant. The servers are all thinking the same thing: Chinese never tip. My heart breaks as I'm awkwardly caught in the middle.

A good friend of mine – a true, blue Aussie sheila – has a thing for Asian guys. It annoys me when foreign women openly say Chinese guys simply aren’t attractive.

I'm from Arcadia, California; "utopia" if you're a homogeneity-seeking Chinese-American family. My parents love this place. My high school is over 70% Asian.

"Thai, Korean, and Vietnamese". Did this guy have an Asian fetish and just needed to add Chinese to his list of flavors he's sampled or was he really into me?

I am an Asian woman with a white boyfriend. Without knowing anything about the circumstances of my relationship, what is your gut reaction to me? Do I suck?